Just thought I would use this part of my page to express some thoughts that I often ponder. Hope everyone enjoys .. if not, I never asked you to read it :> BTW, my opinions are not specifically directed to anyone .. just bits of random jargon.
Something I don't really understand, but have major problems with is the shameful, cowardly attempt by some to verbalize their fatuous opinions of other people. Somewhat generalized statement, I know .. whatever though.
C'mon people .. is your life really that boring and insignificant that you feel the strong desire to sit around bad-mouthing people? I've started to notice how a lot of people use networking sites, such as this one, to spread their imprudent words. I know I seem like a hypocrit, but kiss my ass :> Honestly, I can't even fathom living in a world of discontent.
If you are slightly on the portly side and wanna talk about how fat other people are, we live in a country where we practice freedom of speech, so pork on, keep expressing much of your own insecurities .. if you wanna proclaim to have the "I don't care about [insert idea here, i.e. clothing labels] " attitude, go right ahead bc hey genius people see right through it based on [using my example] how important money is to your life.
Throughout my life, I've learned that no matter how much you care, some people are just assholes and they enjoy being that way. It must suck to live such a lonely life.
I really don't understand why so many people talk so much garbage .. maybe it is a means of making themselves feel more empowered, maybe they just like to be involved in drama .. whatever the deal is, either find your self esteem, or get another hobby. Lastly, I am pretty much an open book .. so, please don't assume things based on "fact" based presumptions from senseless individuals, just ask me.
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Friday, September 21, 2007
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
40 MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHILE HAVING SEX WITH WOMEN
I borrowed this from someone else .. lol!! So funny I HAD to post it everywhere .. lol! :)
40 MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHILE HAVING SEX WITH WOMEN
1) NOT KISSING FIRST.
Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR.
Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a
difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.
3) NOT SHAVING.
You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.
4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST.
Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.
5) BITING HER NIPPLES.
Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a dogie toy isn't.
6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES.
Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and
thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on
the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY.
A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and
West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED.
Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled
fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT.
Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
10) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS.
Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along
side of the clitoris.
11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK.
Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY.
Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the
waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY.
Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the
material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA.
Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.
15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY.
You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in
the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY.
Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a couple of buttons.
17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST.
A man in socks and underpants is a at his worst. Lose the socks fist.
18) GOING TOO FAST.
When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool - she'll soon feel like an
assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.
19) GOING TOO HARD.
If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.
20) COMING TOO SOON.
Every man's fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH.
It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the
mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you're playing Marathon Man.
22) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME.
You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask
23) PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY.
Don't act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris.
24) NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN.
Men persist in doing this until she's eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it
will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It's about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her.
25) NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX.
Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she's performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what's necessary.
26) MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO.
Don't thrust. She'll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie
there. And don't grab her head.
27) TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES.
In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do.
28) MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES.
Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all
the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn't feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest.
29) ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT.
This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don't think that being drunk is an excuse.
30) TAKING PICTURES.
When a man says, "Can I take a photo of you?" she'll hear the words "__to show my buddies." At least let her have custody of them.
31) NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH.
Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no no.
32) SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS.
There is no less erotic noise. It's as sexy as a belching contest.
33) ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES.
If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she's a Romanian gymnast, don't get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
34) LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE.
Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate. Women don't.
35) GIVING LOVE BITES.
It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.
36) BARKING INSTRUCTIONS.
Don't shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It's not a big turn-on.
37) TALKING DIRTY.
It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a 1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she'll let you know
38) NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES.
You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you.
39) SQUASHING HER.
Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too
heavily, she will turn blue.
40) THANKING HER.
40 MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHILE HAVING SEX WITH WOMEN
1) NOT KISSING FIRST.
Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.
2) BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR.
Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a
difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.
3) NOT SHAVING.
You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, it's avoidance.
4) SQUEEZING HER BREAST.
Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.
5) BITING HER NIPPLES.
Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a dogie toy isn't.
6) TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES.
Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and
thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on
the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
7) IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY.
A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and
West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
8) GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED.
Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled
fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
9) LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT.
Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
10) ATTACKING THE CLITORIS.
Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along
side of the clitoris.
11) STOPPING FOR A BREAK.
Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
12) UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY.
Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the
waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
13) GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY.
Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the
material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
14) BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA.
Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.
15) MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY.
You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in
the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
16) UNDRESSING PREMATURELY.
Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a couple of buttons.
17) TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST.
A man in socks and underpants is a at his worst. Lose the socks fist.
18) GOING TOO FAST.
When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool - she'll soon feel like an
assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.
19) GOING TOO HARD.
If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.
20) COMING TOO SOON.
Every man's fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH.
It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the
mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you're playing Marathon Man.
22) ASKING IF SHE HAS COME.
You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask
23) PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY.
Don't act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris.
24) NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN.
Men persist in doing this until she's eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it
will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It's about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her.
25) NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX.
Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she's performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what's necessary.
26) MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO.
Don't thrust. She'll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie
there. And don't grab her head.
27) TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES.
In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do.
28) MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES.
Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all
the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn't feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest.
29) ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT.
This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don't think that being drunk is an excuse.
30) TAKING PICTURES.
When a man says, "Can I take a photo of you?" she'll hear the words "__to show my buddies." At least let her have custody of them.
31) NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH.
Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no no.
32) SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS.
There is no less erotic noise. It's as sexy as a belching contest.
33) ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES.
If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she's a Romanian gymnast, don't get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
34) LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE.
Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate. Women don't.
35) GIVING LOVE BITES.
It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.
36) BARKING INSTRUCTIONS.
Don't shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It's not a big turn-on.
37) TALKING DIRTY.
It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a 1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she'll let you know
38) NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES.
You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you.
39) SQUASHING HER.
Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too
heavily, she will turn blue.
40) THANKING HER.
Saturday, September 8, 2007
Internet Fidelity
I just can't help myself .. call me the "blog thief". After randomly surfing the myspace realm, I stumbled upon something that I think needed more attention .. a place where people can comment w/out it being approved by anyone first. For the sake of ridicule the author shall remain anonymous. Here is their blog:
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Internet fidelity
Is it me? Or would a girl who has 100 guy friends and 10 girlfriends considered a little ~Loose? Or maybe risky? I am putting it very lightly. Maybe we can use the word whorish here… No by definition you cant, there isn't sex being exchanged. Flirty? What word would you describe a woman who interacts/flirts with fifty plus men a week/month, besides a truck driver cashier? This comment is not directed to any one person…because we all know that you are the one exception to the rule. It is funny how everyone is. "But seriously, I just use it to keep up with old friends," and "I know them all." WOW do you have a lot of old guy friends?! Did you used to be a hooker? I would bet that there are hookers that have less male clients than you're myspace account does... And still do well. So why is it that women seem to think they need so many men to flirt with at any given time. I have looked around, Right now, go to your comments and see how many men just stopped in to say hello? Hey baby? "Hey girl! how are you? thanx for the add. its been a long minute since we talked. Or How about the guy that just goes around and says "what a hottie!" to every girl. Droppin a line, girl how you been, lets get our party on, mmm I like to eat ice How do you think that makes you look? Hey maybe it is because you put the sexiest photo you could of yourself on the internet? Or one that portraits you out to a clubby? Maybe that is why all these random guys come along and are your friends. Here is one of my favorites.... I don't know why he is my buddy. I don't talk to him. Well genius, it is cause you said sure you can be my buddy. Cause that is the only way. So anybody here is someone you invited in. Which in turn, kind of shows how friendly you really are. Btw….look at all of those classy guys in your friends column. Birds of a feather… and who in the world would be shown holding a beer can? Besides most 19 year old guys trying to act cool? It just boggles my mind why we all think we need to have so many acquaintances only the fly. Are we all that insecure or need that popularity vote of confidence? Most will read this and be mad at me. If it was talking about men and on Sex and the city you would like it. So play on internet players. You are so good at it!And don't quit flirting on the internet for a guy, that would be asking you to give up too much fidlelity! You would have to resort to actually saving those conversations for one person, instead of fifty. I think I will stop on the way home tonight and just chat with fifty women. Ha ha, I would get called every name in the book if I did that at a bar. But its ok to hide behind a monitor and do it. You aren't seen by everyone. If you were dating someone, and you went out to find your date talking to 50- 100 men. What would you do? Then why is it ok to do online? Well now that I have expressed half of my thoughts on the subject, go ahead and hit me with the I am not an internet whore comments :) It will be fun.
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Now I realize this blog is very long .. but hold on to your cookies kids, it has the ride has only begun. I wanted to clearly make the distinction of my words, vs those written by that other person. So, let's go ahead and get this ball rolling .. lol!! :>
I don't know about everyone else, but logic would direct me to FIRST review my own friends list before even thinking about posting such words. The person that posted that blog has maybe 10 people on their friends list, 1 person being the famous Tom .. it should also be noted that this anonymous person is a male. Given that this male only has about 10 people on his friends list, how many of those do you think are male? Including Tom, maybe 2. Let's do a little math here .. 2 out of 10 people are male, that must mean 8 out of 10 are female. Let's break it down even further, if 2 out of 10 are male and 8 out of 10 are female, that means 20% = male and a whopping 80% are female!!! So genius, figure that one out. Are you merely speaking of how you think of yourself? I'm not a self-proclaimed genius or anything, however it doesn't take an idiot to figure this one out. Just bc you don't have an extensive friends list doesn't mean your theory can't be applied to yourself. Does it inflate your self-esteem by putting such poppycock out there for people to see? Ever think that maybe it is your lack of confidence that forces you to think like that? What makes you different from everyone else? Is that your guilty conscious coming out? I know for a fact you are not the most faithful guy out there .. this has been proven relationship after relationship. To be even more specific, I KNOW of 2 different occasions where 2 different women were at your house .. usually one squaking at the other. Oh yes, I said squaking .. there is a reason for that specific terminology. Cheating is cheating .. whether done on the i-net or not. As for the whole subject on the pics that people decide to pick .. we are all entitled to our own opinions. Just bc you think a certain way, doesn't mean other people agree. Kudos to you for putting up such "decent" pics .. go ahead and pat yourself on the back for that one. However, I will say this .. things are not always what they seem. Fact: you have been drunk more times in the past week than I have in the past 2 months. However, looking at your Beaverland profile you wouldn't be able to tell .. hmm .. interesting .. why not be yourself? What are you trying to hide?
Lastly, let's talk about comments that other people leave. Sure, people probably say the same things over and over again .. big deal. As stated at the beginning of my rant, LOOK AT YOUR OWN PAGE!! I really don't think much can be said. Based on a single comment left by one of the females on your page, your page went from being G-rated to material that should only be viewed by adult eyes.
Thought of the day: How do you think blogs such as the one you wrote make YOU look?
Ok .. obviously I just rabbit-trailed a bit .. it happens. For future reference, please don't share your intelligence w/others w/out first doing your research .. especially on your own battlegrounds. I've said it once, and I will say it again .. after reading the words in grey, reminds me of a word that starts w/an "H" and ends w/"YPOCRITE".
'Life reflects your own thoughts back to you.'
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Internet fidelity
Is it me? Or would a girl who has 100 guy friends and 10 girlfriends considered a little ~Loose? Or maybe risky? I am putting it very lightly. Maybe we can use the word whorish here… No by definition you cant, there isn't sex being exchanged. Flirty? What word would you describe a woman who interacts/flirts with fifty plus men a week/month, besides a truck driver cashier? This comment is not directed to any one person…because we all know that you are the one exception to the rule. It is funny how everyone is. "But seriously, I just use it to keep up with old friends," and "I know them all." WOW do you have a lot of old guy friends?! Did you used to be a hooker? I would bet that there are hookers that have less male clients than you're myspace account does... And still do well. So why is it that women seem to think they need so many men to flirt with at any given time. I have looked around, Right now, go to your comments and see how many men just stopped in to say hello? Hey baby? "Hey girl! how are you? thanx for the add. its been a long minute since we talked. Or How about the guy that just goes around and says "what a hottie!" to every girl. Droppin a line, girl how you been, lets get our party on, mmm I like to eat ice How do you think that makes you look? Hey maybe it is because you put the sexiest photo you could of yourself on the internet? Or one that portraits you out to a clubby? Maybe that is why all these random guys come along and are your friends. Here is one of my favorites.... I don't know why he is my buddy. I don't talk to him. Well genius, it is cause you said sure you can be my buddy. Cause that is the only way. So anybody here is someone you invited in. Which in turn, kind of shows how friendly you really are. Btw….look at all of those classy guys in your friends column. Birds of a feather… and who in the world would be shown holding a beer can? Besides most 19 year old guys trying to act cool? It just boggles my mind why we all think we need to have so many acquaintances only the fly. Are we all that insecure or need that popularity vote of confidence? Most will read this and be mad at me. If it was talking about men and on Sex and the city you would like it. So play on internet players. You are so good at it!And don't quit flirting on the internet for a guy, that would be asking you to give up too much fidlelity! You would have to resort to actually saving those conversations for one person, instead of fifty. I think I will stop on the way home tonight and just chat with fifty women. Ha ha, I would get called every name in the book if I did that at a bar. But its ok to hide behind a monitor and do it. You aren't seen by everyone. If you were dating someone, and you went out to find your date talking to 50- 100 men. What would you do? Then why is it ok to do online? Well now that I have expressed half of my thoughts on the subject, go ahead and hit me with the I am not an internet whore comments :) It will be fun.
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Now I realize this blog is very long .. but hold on to your cookies kids, it has the ride has only begun. I wanted to clearly make the distinction of my words, vs those written by that other person. So, let's go ahead and get this ball rolling .. lol!! :>
I don't know about everyone else, but logic would direct me to FIRST review my own friends list before even thinking about posting such words. The person that posted that blog has maybe 10 people on their friends list, 1 person being the famous Tom .. it should also be noted that this anonymous person is a male. Given that this male only has about 10 people on his friends list, how many of those do you think are male? Including Tom, maybe 2. Let's do a little math here .. 2 out of 10 people are male, that must mean 8 out of 10 are female. Let's break it down even further, if 2 out of 10 are male and 8 out of 10 are female, that means 20% = male and a whopping 80% are female!!! So genius, figure that one out. Are you merely speaking of how you think of yourself? I'm not a self-proclaimed genius or anything, however it doesn't take an idiot to figure this one out. Just bc you don't have an extensive friends list doesn't mean your theory can't be applied to yourself. Does it inflate your self-esteem by putting such poppycock out there for people to see? Ever think that maybe it is your lack of confidence that forces you to think like that? What makes you different from everyone else? Is that your guilty conscious coming out? I know for a fact you are not the most faithful guy out there .. this has been proven relationship after relationship. To be even more specific, I KNOW of 2 different occasions where 2 different women were at your house .. usually one squaking at the other. Oh yes, I said squaking .. there is a reason for that specific terminology. Cheating is cheating .. whether done on the i-net or not. As for the whole subject on the pics that people decide to pick .. we are all entitled to our own opinions. Just bc you think a certain way, doesn't mean other people agree. Kudos to you for putting up such "decent" pics .. go ahead and pat yourself on the back for that one. However, I will say this .. things are not always what they seem. Fact: you have been drunk more times in the past week than I have in the past 2 months. However, looking at your Beaverland profile you wouldn't be able to tell .. hmm .. interesting .. why not be yourself? What are you trying to hide?
Lastly, let's talk about comments that other people leave. Sure, people probably say the same things over and over again .. big deal. As stated at the beginning of my rant, LOOK AT YOUR OWN PAGE!! I really don't think much can be said. Based on a single comment left by one of the females on your page, your page went from being G-rated to material that should only be viewed by adult eyes.
Thought of the day: How do you think blogs such as the one you wrote make YOU look?
Ok .. obviously I just rabbit-trailed a bit .. it happens. For future reference, please don't share your intelligence w/others w/out first doing your research .. especially on your own battlegrounds. I've said it once, and I will say it again .. after reading the words in grey, reminds me of a word that starts w/an "H" and ends w/"YPOCRITE".
'Life reflects your own thoughts back to you.'
MTV Stole *MY* Idea .. LOL!
Oh wow! Another blog w/even more nonsense. I thought Myspace was addictive .. blogs are a nice way for me to express my thoughts w/out having people interrupt :>
So here I am relaxing and watching tv .. I flip to R(Reality)TVand guess what show is on .. anyone have a guess? It's called 'Why Can't I Be You' .. I really like the idea of the show .. in fact, I have given many people my spiel on this!
From what I gather about the show, there are 2 people .. one person, probably the underdog, wants to be someone that they have seen around. Well, that admired person is paid $1k to let the "underdog" stay w/them for 48 hours. What a great idea! Hard for me to believe RTV could even come up w/such a show. Finally, maybe people will get to see that sure .. the grass is always greener on the other side til you jump the fence and see all the shit. BTW, that is not a negative statement, it is a real statement .. we have have shit to deal with, it's just people usually handle situations in different ways.
Anyhoo though .. my point is, there is no point :> Seriously, maybe this show can serve as a good example to show that be careful of what you wish for, bc it might not be what you were hoping for. For instance, there are some females out there that long to be that "beautiful woman" .. whoever she might be? Not saying that people don't try to do things to dress themselves up or anything, just saying that some take it to such an extreme that they let it affect their self esteems and shit. Sometimes, "beauty" brings more attention .. however, that attention is not always positive. Please believe, there are A LOT of haters out there. Also, "beauty" might make some guys feel intimidated.
I say, be happy w/who you are and what you have. To me, beauty is more of who we are on the inside vs. our exterior. Umm .. looks like i got very distracted! Hehehe .. damned ADD!! :>
So here I am relaxing and watching tv .. I flip to R(Reality)TV
From what I gather about the show, there are 2 people .. one person, probably the underdog, wants to be someone that they have seen around. Well, that admired person is paid $1k to let the "underdog" stay w/them for 48 hours. What a great idea! Hard for me to believe RTV could even come up w/such a show. Finally, maybe people will get to see that sure .. the grass is always greener on the other side til you jump the fence and see all the shit. BTW, that is not a negative statement, it is a real statement .. we have have shit to deal with, it's just people usually handle situations in different ways.
Anyhoo though .. my point is, there is no point :> Seriously, maybe this show can serve as a good example to show that be careful of what you wish for, bc it might not be what you were hoping for. For instance, there are some females out there that long to be that "beautiful woman" .. whoever she might be? Not saying that people don't try to do things to dress themselves up or anything, just saying that some take it to such an extreme that they let it affect their self esteems and shit. Sometimes, "beauty" brings more attention .. however, that attention is not always positive. Please believe, there are A LOT of haters out there. Also, "beauty" might make some guys feel intimidated.
I say, be happy w/who you are and what you have. To me, beauty is more of who we are on the inside vs. our exterior. Umm .. looks like i got very distracted! Hehehe .. damned ADD!! :>
Good Advice
I saw this on someone's page and had to steal it .. very good words to remember!
Someone will always be prettier.
They will always be smarter.
Their house will be bigger.
They will drive a better car.
Their children will do better in school.
And their husband will fix more things around the house.
So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.
Think about it.
The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.
And the most highly favored
Woman at your job may be unable to have children.
And the richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes....might be lonely.
And the word says if "I have not Love, I am nothing."
So, again, love you.
Love who you are.
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say
"I am too blessed to be stressed and too anointed to be disappointed!"
"Winners make things happen. Losers let things happen."
Someone will always be prettier.
They will always be smarter.
Their house will be bigger.
They will drive a better car.
Their children will do better in school.
And their husband will fix more things around the house.
So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.
Think about it.
The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.
And the most highly favored
Woman at your job may be unable to have children.
And the richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes....might be lonely.
And the word says if "I have not Love, I am nothing."
So, again, love you.
Love who you are.
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say
"I am too blessed to be stressed and too anointed to be disappointed!"
"Winners make things happen. Losers let things happen."
Marrying your bestfriend ....???
A couple weeks ago, I had an interesting, yet confusing conversation w/someone about opposite sex best friends and marriage. I agree that your husband
The person I had this conversation with stated something along the lines of if several years down the road, he doesn't find anyone he wants to marry, he wouldn't have a problem marrying his best friend. This is where my brain turns to mush and gets confused .. if you can already see yourself marrying your best friend, why not try to be w/them now? I'm not saying that you have to get married or anything .. maybe have more of a romantic relationship?? I really don't know.
Are both people looking around to see if any better prospects enter the picture? Does one have more and/or different feelings for the other? Are they simply not ready for that kind of committment? Are they wasting the time(s) of any people that might have interest in them now? What happens if one gets married to someone other than the friend? Do either one of them use coy tactics w/the intention of sabotaging the other's potential relationships? Are one or both in denial? Are they just going to settle for each other?
Now, can you see/understand why my head spins? All these questions that linger in my brain and circle around this subject. Ya know .. maybe I am just missing completely missing some pieces to my puzzle.
So, let me know some of your thoughts about this .. maybe it will help my thinking come to some sort of peaceful resolve.
FYI ......
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